Fellowship Baptist Church
4-12-26 Visual Notes
Discussion Questions

 These discussion questions are designed to help you LIVE what you LEARN with your Family, Friends, or Small Group.

Observation: What does the text show?

  1. Read 2 Samuel 10:1–5. What details in the text make it clear David’s kindness toward Hanun was genuine and not manipulative?
  2. Why do you think Hanun listened to suspicious advisors instead of trusting David’s kindness? What does this reveal about fear, pride, and leadership?
  3. What were the real consequences of misreading David’s kindness in this chapter? Trace the movement from suspicion → humiliation → war → defeat.


Heart Exposure: Where do we do this with God?

  1. In what areas of life are people most tempted to misinterpret God’s kindness as control, restriction, or threat? - suffering, delayed answers, conviction over sin, hard commands, discipline, surrender
  2. Have you ever experienced a time when God’s kindness did not initially feel kind? Looking back now, how do you see His goodness in it?
  3. How does Genesis 3 show the same temptation to distrust God’s motives? In what ways does the serpent still use that strategy today?


Gospel: How does Jesus settle the question?

  1. Read Romans 2:4–11. According to Paul, what is God’s kindness meant to produce in us?
  2. How does the cross of Jesus prove that God’s heart toward sinners is mercy and not manipulation?
  3. Which response best describes where you are right now: receiving God’s kindness, resisting His kindness, confusing His kindness for permission, taking His patience for granted. What needs to change?


Mission: How should we live?

  1. Rosaria Butterfield’s story shows how ordinary hospitality became the doorway to repentance. How can your kindness toward someone this week become a way God draws them to Himself?
  2. Who in your life may currently be distrusting the kindness of God because of pain, disappointment, or skepticism? How can you patiently represent Christ to them?
  3. What is one specific way your group or family can extend God’s kindness this week so others might be led toward repentance?