
Fellowship Baptist Church
4-12-26 Visual Notes
Discussion Questions
These discussion questions are designed to help you LIVE what you LEARN with your Family, Friends, or Small Group.
Observation: What does the text show?
- Read 2 Samuel 10:1–5. What details in the text make it clear David’s kindness toward Hanun was genuine and not manipulative?
- Why do you think Hanun listened to suspicious advisors instead of trusting David’s kindness? What does this reveal about fear, pride, and leadership?
- What were the real consequences of misreading David’s kindness in this chapter? Trace the movement from suspicion → humiliation → war → defeat.
Heart Exposure: Where do we do this with God?
- In what areas of life are people most tempted to misinterpret God’s kindness as control, restriction, or threat? - suffering, delayed answers, conviction over sin, hard commands, discipline, surrender
- Have you ever experienced a time when God’s kindness did not initially feel kind? Looking back now, how do you see His goodness in it?
- How does Genesis 3 show the same temptation to distrust God’s motives? In what ways does the serpent still use that strategy today?
Gospel: How does Jesus settle the question?
- Read Romans 2:4–11. According to Paul, what is God’s kindness meant to produce in us?
- How does the cross of Jesus prove that God’s heart toward sinners is mercy and not manipulation?
- Which response best describes where you are right now: receiving God’s kindness, resisting His kindness, confusing His kindness for permission, taking His patience for granted. What needs to change?
Mission: How should we live?
- Rosaria Butterfield’s story shows how ordinary hospitality became the doorway to repentance. How can your kindness toward someone this week become a way God draws them to Himself?
- Who in your life may currently be distrusting the kindness of God because of pain, disappointment, or skepticism? How can you patiently represent Christ to them?
- What is one specific way your group or family can extend God’s kindness this week so others might be led toward repentance?