Lamoille Valley Grace Brethren Church
Morrisville, September 12
  • You Never Let Go
  • Holy Holy Holy (Nicaea)
  • 1. Flattery

    A. Flattery is Wrong Because it is Lying

    Proverbs 26:28 NASB95
    28 A lying tongue hates those it crushes, And a flattering mouth works ruin.

    B. Flattery is Wrong Because it is Temporary

    Proverbs 28:23 NASB95
    23 He who rebukes a man will afterward find more favor Than he who flatters with the tongue.
    “A true friend stabs you in the face, not in the back.”

    C. Flattery is Wrong Because It Is Deceptive

    Proverbs 29:5 NASB95
    5 A man who flatters his neighbor Is spreading a net for his steps.
    Watch out! If someone is flattering you, then you know that they are trying to get something from you.

    2. Slander and Gossip

    Proverbs 10:18 NASB95
    18 He who conceals hatred has lying lips, And he who spreads slander is a fool.
    slander=evil report/rumor
    Hatred together with slander. This is a dangerous combination. It is a tell tale sign of a person who does not fear God.
    Proverbs 11:12–13 NASB95
    12 He who despises his neighbor lacks sense, But a man of understanding keeps silent. 13 He who goes about as a talebearer reveals secrets, But he who is trustworthy conceals a matter.
    Talebearer=informer, one who attempts to destroy someones character by slander
    Proverbs 16:28 NASB95
    28 A perverse man spreads strife, And a slanderer separates intimate friends.
    This is product of slander. It destroys friendships. If you value your friends, don’t talk about them behind their backs.
    Proverbs 17:9 NASB95
    9 He who conceals a transgression seeks love, But he who repeats a matter separates intimate friends.
    repeat a matter=gossips or tells everyone the story of his friends failure.
    Proverbs 18:8 NASB95
    8 The words of a whisperer are like dainty morsels, And they go down into the innermost parts of the body.
    same as Prov. 26:22
    morsels=things greedily devoured.
    Gossip is greedily devoured and remembered for a long time. Some people have lies told about them and never outlive their false reputation
    Proverbs 20:19 NASB95
    19 He who goes about as a slanderer reveals secrets, Therefore do not associate with a gossip.
    This is how deal with a gossip. Stay away from them!
    Proverbs 26:20 NASB95
    20 For lack of wood the fire goes out, And where there is no whisperer, contention quiets down.

    3. Hurtful Talk

    Proverbs 12:18 NASB95
    18 There is one who speaks rashly like the thrusts of a sword, But the tongue of the wise brings healing.
    Proverbs 15:4 NASB95
    4 A soothing tongue is a tree of life, But perversion in it crushes the spirit.
    Proverbs 16:27 NASB95
    27 A worthless man digs up evil, While his words are like scorching fire.
    Proverbs 25:23 NASB95
    23 The north wind brings forth rain, And a backbiting tongue, an angry countenance.
    Proverbs 26:2 NASB95
    2 Like a sparrow in its flitting, like a swallow in its flying, So a curse without cause does not alight.
    Ephesians 4:29 NASB95
    29 Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, so that it will give grace to those who hear.

    4. Quarreling

    Proverbs 17:14 NASB95
    14 The beginning of strife is like letting out water, So abandon the quarrel before it breaks out.
    Proverbs 17:19 NASB95
    19 He who loves transgression loves strife; He who raises his door seeks destruction.
    Proverbs 20:3 NASB95
    3 Keeping away from strife is an honor for a man, But any fool will quarrel.
    Proverbs 22:10 NASB95
    10 Drive out the scoffer, and contention will go out, Even strife and dishonor will cease.
    Proverbs 26:21 NASB95
    21 Like charcoal to hot embers and wood to fire, So is a contentious man to kindle strife.

    5. Lying

    A. Is Momentary

    Proverbs 12:19 NASB95
    19 Truthful lips will be established forever, But a lying tongue is only for a moment.
    The truth usually comes out. When it does the benefits of lying (if there are any) evaporate.
    Proverbs 21:6 NASB95
    6 The acquisition of treasures by a lying tongue Is a fleeting vapor, the pursuit of death.

    B. Grieves God

    Proverbs 12:22 NASB95
    22 Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, But those who deal faithfully are His delight.

    C. Has Consequences

    Proverbs 17:20 NASB95
    20 He who has a crooked mind finds no good, And he who is perverted in his language falls into evil.
    Ephesians 5:4 NASB95
    4 and there must be no filthiness and silly talk, or coarse jesting, which are not fitting, but rather giving of thanks.
    Proverbs 19:5 NASB95
    5 A false witness will not go unpunished, And he who tells lies will not escape.

    D. Is Worse than Poverty

    Proverbs 19:22 NASB95
    22 What is desirable in a man is his kindness, And it is better to be a poor man than a liar.

    6. Power of Tongue

    Proverbs 18:20–21 NASB95
    20 With the fruit of a man’s mouth his stomach will be satisfied; He will be satisfied with the product of his lips. 21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it will eat its fruit.
    Those who love it=those who love to talk in the wrong way.
    Ephesians 4:31–32 NASB95
    31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. 32 Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.
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