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04032022 Don't Suffer Alone
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      • Numbers 6:24–26ESV

  • Peace Like A River
  • Revive Us Again
  • Lord I Need You
      • Hebrews 5:7–10ESV

      • Hebrews 5:7–10ESV

  • Opening prayer, dedication
    Symbol of Lent - Crown of Thorns [Liturgist]
    Music ministry
    498 Peace Like A River
    295 Revive Us Again (1,2,4)
    Lord, I Need You
    In the Hands of Christ My King (Chorus only)
    Word of God - Hebrews 5:7-10
    Message: “Don’t Suffer Alone”
    On this fifth Sunday of Lent
    We continue our preparation for the empty tomb and all the empty tomb represents
    Specifically, we think of the “Crown of Thorns” and the suffering Jesus endured for us
    There is so much for us to learn
    We continue to study and learn how to apply God’s Word
    So that we face each challenge of life in a manner that is pleasing to God
    Most pointedly, this entire season of resurrection is focusing on how God calls us to be TOGETHER in all things
    Thus, the title of the message today is “Don’t Suffer Alone”
    The shortest verse in the bible is John 11:35 “Jesus wept”
    That’s what Jesus did when his friend Lazarus died
    Jesus wept, not because Lazarus died
    Not even because Jesus was not with Lazarus when he died
    No, Jesus wept because of the pain that Martha and Mary experienced at the death of Lazarus
    They believed that Jesus could have saved Lazarus if Jesus got there sooner
    They felt like Jesus had left Lazarus alone, abandoned
    In truth, Jesus had not abandoned Lazarus
    Jesus knew that he had “fallen asleep”
    Jesus had told his disciples of Lazarus’ death before they went to see Lazarus
    And Jesus told them that they must go so Jesus could “Awaken him”
    Jesus told them why in John 11:14-15
    John 11:14–15 ESV
    14 Then Jesus told them plainly, “Lazarus has died, 15 and for your sake I am glad that I was not there, so that you may believe. But let us go to him.”
    In this short story, which comes from John 1, we see the truth that we will suffer and have pain
    and whether we see Jesus there with us at that moment or not
    Jesus knows our pain
    Jesus feels our pain
    and Jesus want to lift that pain
    Praise God for His grace and mercy
    This story is just one example Jesus taught us that could only be demonstrated by Jesus coming to walk alongside us
    This is the time in history being described in Hebrews 5:7
    Hebrews 5:7 ESV
    7 In the days of his flesh, Jesus offered up prayers and supplications, with loud cries and tears, to him who was able to save him from death, and he was heard because of his reverence.
    “the days of His flesh” are the days that Jesus walked the earth in human form
    What did Jesus do more than anything else while walking with us?
    Jesus prayed
    Jesus prayed to the point of pleading-which is supplication
    When you see me get tearful and cry, all I’m doing is what Jesus did
    Jesus wept - He wept LOUDLY
    Talk about counter-cultural
    The King of Kings cried loudly
    Since Jesus came to save us and set an example for us, it tells us a couple of things
    First, Jesus let His emotions show
    Jesus’ Example
    Jesus Showed Emotion
    Jesus was not afraid to let people know how He felt
    Yet, Jesus didn’t fake it or put on a show for others
    Jesus was and it authentic and real
    Second, Jesus knew to take His prayers to God the Father
    Jesus’ Example
    Jesus showed emotion
    Jesus Prayed to God
    Psalm 22:1–2 ESV
    1 My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Why are you so far from saving me, from the words of my groaning? 2 O my God, I cry by day, but you do not answer, and by night, but I find no rest.
    I’d bet most of us have been there, for some it has been recently
    We may feel like God has forsaken us or forgotten us or not listened
    In truth, by knowing to go to God in prayer, we are not alone
    We talk to God because we know He is with us
    We go to God in prayer because we know that God is capable of saving us
    Third point, Especially in times of trial, we need supporters near us
    Jesus’ Example
    Jesus showed Emotion
    Jesus Prayed to God
    Jesus Was Not Alone
    As His crucifixion drew near, Jesus gave us this example in Matthew 26:36-39
    Matthew 26:36–39 ESV
    36 Then Jesus went with them to a place called Gethsemane, and he said to his disciples, “Sit here, while I go over there and pray.” 37 And taking with him Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, he began to be sorrowful and troubled. 38 Then he said to them, “My soul is very sorrowful, even to death; remain here, and watch with me.” 39 And going a little farther he fell on his face and prayed, saying, “My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as you will.”
    Jesus demonstrated several things in this
    Even though Jesus needed to go talk with God in prayer
    Jesus did NOT send his friends “away”
    No, Jesus told them to stay nearby
    Jesus took the few He was closest to, Peter and the sons of Zebedee away from the others and confided in them
    Jesus told them why He was so burdened
    Then Jesus asked them to “watch” - some versions say “stay awake” while Jesus talked with God
    Notice that these three in whom Jesus confided did NOT tell Jesus what to do
    They did nothing but be present, so Jesus could be alone with God
    Of course, if we continue to read the passage, those three didn’t manage to stay awake, but that’s another sermon
    The point is that Jesus asked some people to stay with Him as He suffered
    Even knowing that God could remove the impending suffering
    Jesus did not need the physical strength of those friends
    Jesus wanted them there for support AND to show them how WE should relate to God in the midst of trial
    Then, Jesus taught us that God hears us even if God doesn’t do what WE want
    How many times have you heard someone say, “THEY never listen”
    When what they should say is “They didn’t do what I wanted”?
    I heard that all the time when I was in politics
    I heard it in business
    and I have heard it as a pastor
    The truth is, that sometimes we just disagree wit each other
    And sometimes there is more at work than someone realizes
    When a child plead their case to stay up past bedtime, don’t parents sometimes have to say ‘no’ for reasons the child does not understand?
    Of course, and the same thing happens to adults
    I have prayed that God remove a medical problem or illness
    Yet the illness did not go away
    I know God heard me, and I know that the answer was either ‘no’ or ‘not yet’
    So, my job is to be obedient to what God says to do NOW
    Even Jesus had to demonstrate that He learned obedience by going to the cross for our sins
    That’s what Hebrews 5:8 tells us
    Hebrews 5:8 ESV
    8 Although he was a son, he learned obedience through what he suffered.
    Can you imagine knowing that your entire life purpose is to suffer so others can see obedience in suffering?
    That was only part of the purpose of Jesus’ life
    But it is a part of OUR lives too
    Hebrews 5:9 goes on
    Hebrews 5:9 ESV
    9 And being made perfect, he became the source of eternal salvation to all who obey him,
    We sometimes don’t give enough thought to the “process” of Jesus becoming perfect
    That is part of the story we tell on Maundy Thursday Service
    What Jesus went through
    Which sets us up to more fully appreciate the Salvation we have because we are Believers
    Just don’t forget the second part of verse 9,
    Eternal salvation for “all who obey him”
    My prayer is that each of us are both believers and OBEDIENT
    So how can we live in a way that is obedient to this lesson of Jesus is teaching us in Hebrews 5:7-10?
    Don’t suffer alone!
    Acknowledge
    Trouble is Real
    Everything from
    Bad medical news
    Financial heartache
    Loss of loved ones
    We will have troubles
    Acknowledge that God will hear our prayer
    Acknowledge
    Trouble is Real
    God Will Hear Your Prayer
    Go to God knowing He is all powerful
    Let God see your pain and suffering
    Let others see you are hurting
    Also let others see that you trust God to be with you in the darkest valley as well as on the highest mountain
    Don’t Suffer Alone-Acknowledge
    Trouble is Real
    God Will Hear Your Prayer
    Value of Connection
    Don’t face alone what God has designed for you to face with the support of others
    If entrusted to be with someone suffering
    Be present and awake
    Pray for them
    Let them lean on you, but only as you work as the hands and feet of Jesus
    Don’t direct them, be present and let them lead
    Jesus is being described as a high priest in the order of Melchizedek
    You may recall from the recent message, “At the Throne of Grace Together”
    One of the most spectacular things Jesus did was to choose to leave the highest heaven to come to walk with us
    By coming alongside us and becoming human for a time
    Jesus was fulfilling a requirement for high priesthood
    I had us look at Hebrews 2:17-18
    Jesus came alongside us and became “LIKE” us
    That we may know that Jesus understands our struggles
    That we may know we are not alone
    Because, we have a great example to
    Believe in Jesus as the all capable Son of God
    Be Faithful and pray fervently
    And do all this surrounded by fellow Believers
    We are called to live life TOGETHER
    Together in good times and bad
    And by all means, Don’t suffer alone
    Amen
    Closing Hymn/Invitation: How Marvelous (start verse 2)
    “The Lord’s Prayer”
    Apostles’ Creed
    Communion
    Pastoral prayer/Benediction
      • John 11:14–15ESV

      • Hebrews 5:7ESV

      • Psalm 22:1–2ESV

      • Matthew 26:36–39ESV

      • Hebrews 5:8ESV

      • Hebrews 5:9ESV

  • I Stand Amazed (How Marvelous)
  • The Apostles' Creed