• I have never heard "the talk" framed the way this book does it. I mean... wow. Seriously. Growing up, I knew the basic "save it for marriage," and that was about it. When I first encountered temptation, confusion started setting in. Confusion, rationalization, and justification. I truly wanted to honor Christ, I really did. And I would feel guilty every time I messed up. But even then, I questioned why I felt guilty. I really didn't get it. I couldn't find a Bible verse that spelled it out clearly, like "how far is too far?" and all those questions. Especially when I was engaged, the wait till marriage thing made NO sense to me at all. Had I read this book back then, man this would've helped like, a LOT.