God's purpose and calling for us is to be transformed and conformed into the image of His Son Jesus. Thus, who we are becoming is the most important aspect of our lives. Our ministry and leadership should only be the overflow and outflow of our spirituality in Christ. Becoming like Jesus can only come from being with Jesus and living, loving, and leading like Him in this world. That is only possible through the work of the Holy Spirit in us and through us together with others. Our spirituality must be relational, first with God and then with others.